Thank you addie!!!! It went pretty well. My friend was with me & she helped me watch everyone. They were all in different places & he is pretty sneaky right now. He did pull a couple of things over on me, but I knew it before he left & didn't say anything, it wasn't worth it. I was very upbeat the whole day, but I did hover quite a bit because I just needed to see what he was up to. He would take things he wasn't supposed to & also his brother & his wife would too but of course they didn't know the difference. He did leave me a mess to clean up & didn't take everything he was supposed to of his stuff but he should have at least got it out of my house, most will go to the dump. Oh well!!
He did get a little snippy with me a couple of times & right at the end of the day, I made him mad because he was supposed to take the old bedroom suit, which he did but he didn't have room to take the box spring & mattress, I told him that he wanted that suite so he needed to take all of it. (He got a mattress & box from his Mom's because these were really old & he would probably just throw them away). Anyway, he said "you can thank me for moving the stero cabinet from the bedroom to the living room" (he took the one in the living room). He said my Dad could get the mattress & stuff out of the way, I told him that my Dad was 80 years old & he was not able to get that stuff. He said the Uhaul truck was full & he didn't have room, so he got mad & said then I get someone to get it & he would pay for it. I then told him lets not do this right at the end, I teared up a little bit then. He said he thought he had been more than fair & I also said that I thought I had been more than fair too. He then would not take the afghan that I had made, I told him that I didn't care & he said that I made it that I could keep it. So he left it here. I was hoping he would take it & think about me everytime he used it. Well, I couldn't help it, I did break down when he left. He hugged me & said "Have a nice life" & I was crying, he hugged me again & I told him, "I really did love you" he wished me good luck & I said the same thing. I said I hope we can be friends, he nodded his head, so who knows. He went to the dogs & hugged them & told them he loved them, then before he walked out I hugged him & said "I told myself I wasn't going to cry" he left & my friend saw him, she thought he wiped a tears from his eye, so I don't know if that was because of me or because of the dogs. He knows he will probably never see one of them again.
Today his son came back to get a few things that his Dad had given him & he asked me if I was going to sell the house. I told him no that I planned on staying here, so I have a feeling my H told him to find out. He got in a hurry & left some things here that I'm sure he will eventually want. We'll see.
My friend thinks in a few months when this wears off with OW that he will be calling me. I just don't know for sure.
I really broke down & cried after he left but he didn't see that, I was very upbeat today when his son came by. I'm not really sure how I did but my friend thought I handled things pretty well yesterday considering all that I've been through & as snippy as he got with me a couple of times. I wish I had not cried but I just couldn't help it.
Thank you for all your support!!!!! What do you all think???
