I know saying your W is wrong and you are right doesn't help much because her actions still hurt. You need to find a way not to allow her to hurt you anymore. The stuff about the landscaper is crap, she left her home, left you to deal with it and you are doing it the best you can. If W doesn't like it , let her deal with maintaining the house. For what it is worth, I think W is acting like this because she can. She knows you want the M back so she feels she has the upper hand.she also has moved on to an OM , who is now her priority, anything she has to do with you or the house is a pain to her. It is sad she she is not making sure D talks to you,. She is not being fair. You are right , the sooner the custody is settled and you have a court order the better. Obviously , your W is not capable of coparenting , so a court order will make it easier for you to see your D. Have strength and build a protective emotional wall around yourself.
