I agree and I hope the parenting evaluator will also see this as harmful to D. However, I'm not sure the court system cares about affairs and boyfriends, which is sad. I'm printing out all the texts on this and will submit them to the parenting evaluator. I just don't know what to think here. Why does my W feel it is necessary to mess w/ D's head as well as pour salt in my wounds. I know she's w/ OM already. I know they sleep together. I don't need it on display for me.
W has been texting me some more calling me a pathological liar and saying I lied to her when I reported the landscaper came over w/out my knowledge and worked on the yard. The guy was working on our yard while we were home on Saturday and he came on his own. When I discovered him, the yard was done. Then on Monday, I came home and the back was done as well. Now W is balking at paying for 1/2 of the cost b/c she says I didn't get an estimate from him while he was in the front yard on Saturday.
Whatever. At this point I don't care and I'll pay him the $300 myself. She is being such a pain and I'm close to letting it get to me. I explained my situation to her about the landscaper, but I'm done and I won't escalate it any further. She can choose to twist things in any way she wants. I'm going to be sure to give everything to the parenting evaluator however, as he told me point blank NOT to use D as an information source during this process. It is very clear that W is using D as an information source, so I hope he won't be too happy with that.
Also, I called at 7:30 to talk w/ D, but W didn't pick up the phone. D later sent me a cute, non-sensical text and I replied to it and also told her she could call me. W replied saying "I asked her if she wanted to call you and she said she wasn't interested." So that is now two nights in a row that I won't get to talk to D. I always make sure D calls and at least tells W goodnight when she is with me. Why can't W do the same? Doesn't she see that she's using D as a tool?
I'm frustrated with all of this. I am tired of the spitefulness and the angry words. I just need this custody thing to come to a resolution and soon so I don't lose my mind!
