Its a bit early to tell right now other that she is being more cooperative at present and she did come to me to get a kiss goodbye when she picked up D on Saturday .
Journaling Now.
I have backed off with W a small amount , being friendly but not going out of my way to make contact unless its something re the Kids. Too early to see if this is going to cause a reaction and I have noticed an effort on her part to be more cooperative. W was around home Sat night and stayed for Dinner and a movie as usual , was starting to feel Ill but took D home with her so that I could go out to a party. Sunday I Text her too see when she was dropping D back she replied and also stated she was ill. I know her lawn was out of control so I went round and mowed it for her , she was appreciative.
What I did note was interesting.
When W moved to her place just a couple of months ago she kept it spotless , planted the gardens with flowers and was taking some pride. When I called on Sunday I was surprised , weeds in the garden , house looking like it could do with a a clean , dishes in sink from at least day before. I am not reading much into this but making an observation. When she decided to leave home (and this was a year before she actualy left) she lost interest in the garden ( plants died ) and projects were left etc. Its possible she has just been feeling tired and not well , time will tell.
W then called on Sunday while I was busy in garden to spend time with D who had some friends round. W found this all a bit much , as she still ill ,and went and laid on my bed closed door and watched TV . I left her to it and she reappeared as the Girls went while I was in middle of preparing dinner. She stayed for Dinner and then left soon after.
She was quite relaxed and pleasant to have about , I have no real need to contact her until later in the week as D is with me until then so we will see how that goes.
