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sounds like a positive interaction

yes I liked that part of the book where he said that he saw her stand by the way he could not press her buttons
I believe they want us to be angry so they can justify their decision
How much harder is it when your kind and offer them dinner and ice tea?
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D final 3 /09
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Trusting - "you are my hero!!"
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Hope everyone is preparing to have a good week.

I had a great day with the kids. We went shopping for spring clothes and I probably spent too much, but it was fun.

It felt so good to be with the kids again. They were with ex the last 4 days.

Yesterday the kids went to ex's father's birthday party. OW was not there.

Ex's aunt recently lost her husband last month from cancer. She was very sad at the party according to my son and kept telling the kids how hard it is to lose a husband. I hope this had some impact on ex.

Son also said that ex drives very aggressive and everyone is always "whipping him the finger". I had to laugh at this one.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Hope everyone is preparing to have a good week.

I had a great day with the kids. We went shopping for spring clothes and I probably spent too much, but it was fun.

It felt so good to be with the kids again. They were with ex the last 4 days.

Yesterday the kids went to ex's father's birthday party. OW was not there.

Ex's aunt recently lost her husband last month from cancer. She was very sad at the party according to my son and kept telling the kids how hard it is to lose a husband. I hope this had some impact on ex.

Son also said that ex drives very aggressive and everyone is always "whipping him the finger". I had to laugh at this one.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Hope everyone is preparing to have a good week.

I had a great day with the kids. We went shopping for spring clothes and I probably spent too much, but it was fun.

It felt so good to be with the kids again. They were with ex the last 4 days.

Yesterday the kids went to ex's father's birthday party. OW was not there.

Ex's aunt recently lost her husband last month from cancer. She was very sad at the party according to my son and kept telling the kids how hard it is to lose a husband. I hope this had some impact on ex.

Son also said that ex drives very aggressive and everyone is always "whipping him the finger". I had to laugh at this one.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Hi T!! Was hoping you would pop on.

Glad to hear you had a good day! Really glad to hear it.


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Hi T!! Was hoping you would pop on.

Glad to hear you had a good day! Really glad to hear it.


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Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
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Hey trusting - hope you are well and that those kids of yours are making you smile and laugh and fill with joy!!


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
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D final 7/30/2008
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Thanks Cagz. Hope you are doing well also.


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Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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This thread title is my mantra for when I am tempted to speak or act without thinking first.

I love it.

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Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
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