Wow, I hadn't realized I had so many responses from last week! I have not been on my own thread since then. Thanks to everyone!!
Our camping trip went fine. It was a little chilly, but could have been worse. It only rained overnight. H was there as usual. He loves tending the campfire and helping out with the cooking where he can. He went home on Friday and Saturday nights. I know he was there just because of the chores he got done, and he also called me a few times, too (altho cell service is not good where we were).
As far as OW, we are seeing a lawyer. I feel I can't go into details here. Basically, she has a lawyer, actually someone my H set her up with. This guy has paperwork all ready to go to sue us for her medical bills. Great. I did learn that about 50% of them were waived. One bit of good news. H suggested we talk to a lawyer on our own to find out how to protect ourselves (or me and D14) and that OW would not know of this! It's going to be an interesting summer.
I'm still working up to moving over to piecing. I think what is stopping me is that H and I have not had a real R conversation in a long time. The last time we had one, the A had not ended. I want to ask him: Are we really working on this? Meaning us, our R, our M?
Knowing him, he'll probably answer, I thought's that what we were doing. Yeah, hunny, but I need to hear it, not assume it.
So Glad he was there to help with the camping trip. Sounds like he's doing a great job with reassuring you. Was a little confused about the lawyer sitch will have to go backand read about that one. But I don't think H will want anything to do with her since she's suing him.
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace
Water, Summary of legal sitch: H and OW were in a motorcycle accident last May. That's how I discovered the A (altho I was suspicious before it happened). They are both lucky to be alive.
OW had no health insurance and over $100k in medical bills. She could get some money from our vehicle insurance but the cause of the accident, and who was at fault, has YET to be determined. If H is found at fault, she won't get anything from our insurance. It's been nearly a year.
So that is one reason for her lawyer. And, she wanted one more surgery, purely cosmetic, and the docs won't do it cause she has no health insurance. If I were her, I'd probably do the same thing. But it was her choice to get on a bike without insurance.
