Oh, wanted to point out b4 I get out of here...you sound consistent and patient...I just think you are a bit frustrated now. Just keep doing what you are doing. I, in no way, meant that you weren't.
I didn't think you were saying that, but even if you were you would be right. Sometimes I get off track b/c I think I am going crazy. I am frustrated, but back on track. I think that my problem is I talk to much about it. I will limit my venting to my closest friend and those who can offer contructive critism and advice such as the people here. I have a few friends, and my old therapist by the way, who love to give me advice contrary to DBing. Thank goodness for this site and the book. It is pretty bad news when you finally figure what is best for your relationship more so than your therapist.
Good luck with the relatives
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