I am wondering if it is time for the last resort, file and see if that shakes him. He is now having an open affair, he even brought her with when he came to drop something at me (she waited in the car).
I deserve better, I deserve respect but most of all I deserve LOVE!
Well I've read in several places on the boards here that you apparently will know when it is time to file. I haven't reached that point yet, I don't know if it sounds like you are at that point either? I would be surprised if that would shake him if your H is in the fantasy honeymoon type stage where he is obsessed with the OW. I think my H wanted me to file for divorce at one point when he was totally obsessed with the OW, but now he doesn't seem to be rushing into divorce lately, so I am hoping he makes a carefully considered decision whatever that may be (although since he is in MLC I don't know if that is really possible)!!!
I agree its not about you! I realized that when I made all the changes H said he wanted plus extra improvements in addition to that, but yet he still is with OW & talking divorce. I think my H is kind of depressed & unhappy & prob. wouldn't be happy in any marriage & maybe your H is like that, too!
I totally agree that you deserve respect & love; I realize I deserve that also and hopefully we won't settle for less than that!!! Karen
Karen
