Lovemyguy... I was over my H in Sept am now back in love... of course raw fate- now he's over me... All I can say is feelings can change back at the drop of hat.... don't ever doubt that they can't.

2 months ago, mine was SOOOO over me, It went from it's over period, to .. it's over.. maybe... to I want to separate so we can reboot... to we can just be friends... to we need to take baby steps, I'm not closing any doors, to I don't want to mislead you... to this Friday (in ref to a book I have asked him to read on rekindling love/connection)... he said: who knows we might end up like the couple who recommended the book and we'll get back together quickly. (incidentally we're separating at the end of the month - I'm moving out... don't ask!)

NEVER say never. It's hard I know, but just keep tossing the "goodie" bread crumbs out there and see which one's he pecks at. It's hard to be patient (as Michelle can attest of me in my thread... even with the progress I've been a nutter all week long!)

Turns come at the strangest things... keep pluggin!

Abbey

Last edited by Abbey; 04/13/08 08:31 PM.

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.