Holly, it is so tough to be in the place you are in now. it would be so nice for our needs to be met by someone. but...here we are, facing ourselves and caring for ourselves.

baby steps help. what else helped you before? what will feel good now?

you know you will be up again. if there is a way to make a journey to and up place faster and more pleasurable?

me, h - 40+
m-20+
s, d, ss - 20+
s, ow, pa since 04.2007
h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008
h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1