Just saw your post. LOL, my W has said EXACTLY the same thing about coworkers (we are both at the same place, though in different departments) - says she thinks they're giving her the cold shoulder, won't make eye contact, etc.
I totally agree with you - I'm moving on in making my life a happy and productive one. The ball is totally in her court now; she'll have to make a major effort if she expects to have my friendship. I also have accepted that we'll D, though deep down I think we still have another melt-down coming. Above all else I need to prepare myself for that, because I can't just take her back when she starts crying.
Hey, just saw you're in Maine! I went sea-kayaking there for the first time last summer - Muscongus Bay. It was beautiful!
