this is maryangela -- have to start new thread

[addie]

At this point, I really don't see how db can overcome this kind of situation when your spouse says, "I've never been happier. I've never connected to someone like this before". I just don't see how this can be repaired.

It CAN be repaired because what your H said is actually what most WAS say or think they feel. Almost all LBS have heard this one. The love or connection the WAS has with OP usually fades at some point because it is not real but based on a fantasy. Keep DBing and don't appear needy (asking for kiss on the lips).
Good Luck!