It wasn't obvious to me that he did but I am sure he missed her. My H is quite unusual in that once he makes a decision he never considers the 'what if's' - he says there's no point. My eldest D is exactly the same. I guess it's just the way they work. I do think my H was ready to end the A when he told me about it. He did go and say goodbye to her, (perhaps this is like your W's weekend away), and I found that very hard. In the weeks following though, we discovered all sorts of things about OW. She was a member of my H's staff, and other staff opened up to my H once she had gone; it became apparent she had used the A with my H in her favour when dealing with other staff. My H was quite shocked by what he learned; I on the other hand couldn't believe he had been quite so naieve. What he discovered helped him get over her.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
