Guys, there's nothing that says we can't go back to our spouses later and say "You know, I was thinking about something you said to me yesterday. You said _________ , and now that I've had time to think about it, I really feel that __________ ."
Never shelter an adulterer from the consequences of their adultery. If they're getting shunned at work, you can VALIDATE, and still not AGREE and even get in a truth dart:
"Honey, I'm sorry you had to hear that. That must have been painful. Unfortunately, it's one of the consequences of your decision to have an affair."
Not only CAN you do that, but you SHOULD do that. People engaged in irresponsible and even reckless behavior need to be reminded from time to time of what they are doing. You can't TEACH them when they're in this condition (addicted to another lover), but you can certain get in some TRUTH DARTS.
I'd suggest being prepared with a good response the next time you hear that, Lodo. I'm 100% certain you'll get another opportunity.
