I just don't think well on my feet when she gets like that. In the past I've tended to adopt the "parental" tone and it's caused conflict, so I guess I was just trying to steer clear of that and get away from R talk. I do think she's a good person, just making bad choices.
She hasn't quite told me I deserve better than her, but that I deserve someone who can make me happy. Once again, it amazes me we all hear the same stuff!
No, I'm not really a religious person but prayers are appreciated!
