Ok, LOL, CAnt; I just used up your whole thread, LOL...funny...we think a lot alike....

My H said that too about me using my kids, but you know what, they figured him out all by themselves...2 of mine are at an age they understand but he doesn't..he acts younger than them...

one piece of advice....DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING..... they will use it against you....if my H wants the D, which he is now telling everyone he's getting....he is about to have the fight of his life...and I will not be at the court on signing day....I'm taking the advice of someone else here on the board...can't remember who it is but ......I won't be there because by signing the final D papers it is saying that I agreed with everything that went on and the outcome...and I don't, nor will I, so he will have to get it on his own and look at those papers with only his signature knowing he is the only one who wanted the D....sorry but....that's the way it is....

Am I strong,,,,heck no.....but I'm trying to be....My H wanted 50/50 custody remember, but he wanted me to leave the house on the week he was here.....I asked him what planet he lived on...I'm not leaving my home...he chose it, he lives with it...


Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity