Lodo, my WW has told me the same thing before. How she wasn't a good person. I basically told her the same thing you did, but I also told her that I wanted to help her find the good person inside of her. I remember that same day she told me that OM had told her that WW and I would probably someday be back together. She has also told me that I deserve better than her. I bet we have all heard that. I think I read somewhere that when someone tells you that, it's probably true. I hate when I am too slow to think of the right thing to say in a situation, then it all comes later after the fact. Damn, I shoulda said this or that. Again, your WW and mine feel the guilt and know what they should be doing, but its like they are addicted.
I think I read somewhere that you are not a religious person. If I'm wrong, accept my apology. Either way, I will say a prayer for you, brother.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."