SIL came for the meal and she told me something very interesting. Like me SIL is studying at the moment. She has an exam this week. A couple of weeks ago she was studying at home and BIL was taking care of thier two young children. At one point BIL told SIL that H was coming round to visit as OW was studying and she wanted the house to herself! SIL said she looked at BIL in disbelief b/c he hadn't mentioned to H that SIL was also studying. Anyway apparently when H turned up he also had OW with him. She stayed two mins and then went back to her studying. Although SIL doesn't know for def she was fairly certain that this was to make sure the H actually went where he said he was going!!!!!!!! I'm beginning to like this being dark and still
The kids have gone out to breakfast with H today. I didn't even know they had arranged it until about 15 mins before he arrived. I got up late b/c I didn't come in until 2am. Needless to say I didn't look my prettiest so I stayed upstairs and got a shower. D12 and S15 were not ready when he arrived so D17 made him a cup of tea. It must have been the longest time he has spent in our house since Christmas. I found myself frustrated at not seeing him but also quite content that I was in charge of any potential interaction.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
