We had another fight 2 days ago: One of the big issues wile she had OA with OM was the fact she posted sensual photos of herself on facebook. It completely freaked me out in the context of her A. Well, she does not have an online A now but she is still posting those pictures. Please understand: they are not pornographic or even erotic, like nude photos or anything, they are simply sensual. The look in the eyes, the pout of the lips, a bit of exposed thigh etc. She took some photos of herself three days ago for a camera club project "After dark" and asked my opinion. Very nice pictures: Her in a spagetti PJ top with marilyn monroe's face and hotpants with one arm behind the head, knees together and feet apart, that sort of thing. (W is really beautiful). I told her beautiful picture but are you going to post that on the internet? She says why not? I say, well it looks like you are advertising yourself. You have about thirty pictures of yourself on facebook, what does that say about you?
Immediate drop in temperature to sub zero. And I realize it was a trap. Or a sick test or something. She knows exactly how I feel about the subject, why does she ask me? Next day she posts some remark on her Facebook profile: "I'm not sexy I'm just photographed that way. I can't do anything right, always in trouble" Of course she gets response from guys telling her how sexy she is...
My question: Was this a DBing mistake to give her my honest opinion? The moment I saw she got angry I left the room, but it feels that she is now more distant than ever before.
Me 43 W 42 M 1998 S16 S15 D7 D4 bomb 07/03/2007 OPA ILYBNILWY My Thread