I think you need to chose what type of comunication with your H is best for you and stick to it. My H was abusive in e-mail I blocked him. All that happens is that when he tried to e-mail me a polite message come up ... NC is not accepting mail from you at the moment. he may, as my h did change screen names or open another account, block that too if he is rude. I have blocked my H 4 times now. He has finally learned what wil happen if he is rude and it has not been an issue for a good couple of months.
I don't normally answer my phone to h as I am so busy So, his choice is to either e-mail respectfully or there is no contact.
HIS CHOICE.
NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
So, his choice is to either e-mail respectfully or there is no contact. 