1) My stbxW is as angry or more angry today than the day she left. After 16 mths of S I've come to realize that I'll probably never understand why. 2) I don't think about it. Really, I don't want to know. 3) Have to agree with sandycay. 4) I believe the day stbxW said "I don't love you anymore" was the day that she stopped looking back at our M and started looking forward to her life without me.
I know how difficult this can be, but by following DB priciples we make positive changes for ourselves. Hopefully they notice, if not we're better prepared for the next R.
