Man, what I wouldn't give to have xW show any interest in me at all. However after 16 mths of S and after how she's treated me throught the legal process, I would be reluctant to expose myself to her emotionally. Of course there would be a history between us but I think I would approach things as if it was a new relationship, trying to get to know her all over again.
i'llsurvive - after 3 yrs, I'm just wondering how well you actually know her as she is today? Her 2nd M and relationship after that suggest to me that she's still trying to find something that she didn't find in your M. Mind you I don't know your entire sitch and I'm still hurting from mine, my feeling is be CAUTIOUS.
