I respectfully disagree and so does my therapist. She assures me that I did nothing wrong and that H has control issues, but no true leadership qualities.

H has already started acting up with his OW and she threatened to throw him out. They have only been living together for two months. H is clinically depressed and on medication, but they probably need to be adjusted. H simply cannot play it cool and go with the flow. He makes impulsive decisions that always come back to bite him.

Disconnecting my cell without telling me is only the latest example and even H's own lawyer couldn't believe he did that. Ironically, H's f'ed up impulses are now working to my advantage. Wait till he and OW find out that he has to pay me twice what he has been in spousal support. LMAO!!!