We are on the same page 100%.. I am going to let (OM)wife find out like I did.. On her own.. It will be their mess and not one I created..
It just amazes me -How G/F can do this ..As
She was legally separated for 10 months with her(H) - When I met G/F.. reason for their break-up HIS (P)AFFAIR WITH HIS EX-WIFE??
WTH?
She has still not divorced her (H) and recently told him and I (BUT not together at once) but same day - As long as she can keep his military medical VA benefits -She has no plans for continuing BD.. She told me that he also stated -Not like he wanted BD nor to remarry either. So it would be OK to stay married to each-other -But not together in any way.. I do know she wouldn't have 30 sec for me though..
But to start her own (EA)while with me ??
The more I continue to break this down -The more it appears -Just a large mess..
But I still have/had serious long term hopes though and Love for her..
Also it seems she always would marry b/f (4x) as she would tell me - She had feelings of a concrete life with them and with-in 3-5 years -Truly colors would then come out and ruin it.. She is currently in 5 marriage now - But just postponed her BD with medical benefits..
M:43 G/F:45 R: 1 yr and 8 months
We all want to be loved... With someone who is in Love with You
