Karen,
He agrees that you shouldn't communicate to him anymore about his kids? He's their father! He needs to be involved in their life, their up bringing, their physical and emotional well-being, everything! What's he going to do, walk away from not only you, but them as well? Perhaps he's just putting his head deeper into the sand (or up his arse!).

But at least he's going to be able to watch D8 tonight. That's a relief for you. You don't need to worry about her when you're on stage. Good luck again tonight.

Joie