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Too true. You have been conditioned to think this is normal from your childhood.


No I do not think this is normal at all. Our lives haven't been normal for 12 months.

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You H seems to be acting out what he saw growing up. Be prepared and at least have a back up plan in case things get worse


I have my lawyer set. I am ready to file if necessary. For now...I wait.


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It isn't your fault.


Your are right! and I do know that. I only take responsiblity for ME


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!