yes you are. you are taking ownership of what happened
NO i am not! I am taking ownership for ME and what I did! My H went tooo far! PERIOD! But if I would have left it NEVER EVER would have even happened. He did not keep me there to beat me up. He did not hold me down so he could take his frustrations out on me. We BOTH were wrong. We both are frustrated and hurt and full of pent up emotions...we BOTH have had enough.
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uhmmm she gets the abuse too....it wont end w/you.
I think you are right. I have said for a long time that if he stays with OW, she will one day pay for what he lost to be with her. Because if he loses me and our girls and this farm in the end, this man will never be well again. I believe that in my core as well as all of his family.
hes escalating..it will become easier for him. hes crossed that threshold. Yes if it doesn't bring him back to sanity first.
what part of this do you not see?????
The last 24 years that I have spent with this man.
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far far away from that man
your right...for now.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
