OK, I probably just broke some major DB rules, but am upset. H never emailed or talked to me after I emailed him about S14's therapy, missing his Dad, etc. Today my D8 has the stomach flu and has been vomiting since early this morning. Just threw up again. H was supposed to pick her up at the theatre after a party he is going to, and I emailed him asking if he could go earlier or something as I think she is too sick to go to the theatre even for a half hour or so. H never has emailed me and that was an hour or two ago (he has always been compulsive about checking his Blackberry when he is not with OW so is probably with her. And I tried calling him on his cell phone and he won't answer & has never set up his voicemail either so can't leave a message!!!
I just emailed him: Since you are not communicating with me re: the kids, I will no longer bother to communicate with you then either. I would think wherever you got the idea from when you said you wanted to comm. about the kids, whether your therapist or a book, they probably did not intend for one parent to do all the communicating, and none from the other parent. I feel like I am wasting my time when you don't communicate as well & seem to ignore me: for example when I emailed you about the therapy/Daniel and today with Jamie sick. I'm not mad, just don't think this is the way most people would intend communication to occur: one-way. Thanks for reading this (I guess if you do...) You may want to discuss this with your therapist??? I think that would be a good idea probably. I don't want to discuss it with you as it is now.
I actually am mad at him right now & just worried about having to take sick S8 to the theatre (I can't just not go to the play!) I wish he was less of a teenager, and more of a man!!! Karen
Karen
