God give me the patience and the strength...2

[theotherhalf]

What you MUST do is change what you are doing!

This is what I have done this last few weeks...that is why things I think have esculated so much. For the last year I have sit by quietly for the most part. I haven't laid many boundaries. I haven't DEMANDED respect. I have pretty much laid down and let him and OW walk over and over and over me. Now I've thrown a wrench into the game. I have stood for ME and they don't like it. You see, it doesn't even matter at this point if I end up pushing him into a divorce. I only know that I cannot sit by and let this happen to me anymore no matter what the outcome is. I guess at this point I've pretty much proved that if he really wants to be with her than he is going to have to go get a D. It's his choice. I will NOT sit by and let him continue to see her while we are legally still M.

I keep asking you what is your H seeing when he looks back to see what he is leaving behind.

A woman that will do ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING to save her family. A woman that will stand by her H through everything better or worse. A woman that never gives up. A woman that can hold her head high and know that she is good. A woman that isn't afraid to fight for what is her's and what is right. A woman that can STAND on her OWN 2 feet without ANY help from ANY man. A woman that will stand face to face with any MAN to fight for what she holds dear. A woman that is honest. A woman that is good. A woman that is pure. A woman that works hard. A woman that takes care of her children no matter what is going on with her.

TOH, what woman is he seeing?

I REALLY don't have a clue...this is what he should be seeing because it is who I am right now. But with OW and MLC blinders on I don't think he can see past OW's big a*s!

Is that a woman he wants to be home with?

Don't know what he wants now. But it is the woman he was proud to call his wife for 23 years.