You are right about the "typical" domestic violence. Adn that is great that you don't feel that you are in harm. BUT you have been abused emotionally - read your post sweetie...really read it....
Too true. You have been conditioned to think this is normal from your childhood. You H seems to be acting out what he saw growing up. Be prepared and at least have a back up plan in case things get worse
It isn't your fault.
NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.