Thanks very much for the tips and I will be mindful of all of them. I can't believe the situations that we find ourselves in here but there's no point in being miserable about it. We simply must do whatever we have to save our marriages and ourselves, if we really care that much about doing it. Nathan's and David's posts in the "Successful Men" section I have found very helpful and I read through them regularly.
I ultimately just have to wait for Time to flush the truth out.
best,
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
