wow... that's a heck of a history to have to deal with.


If you are open to maybe reconciling, then how about this thought:

Consider how you would react, if you were still married, but she was doing what she was doing now.

I doubt you would divorce her.

So, if you wouldnt divorce her... then maybe that means you should still remain open to reconciliation, and even help it along a little bit.

If she is trying to pull you together again... maybe allow her to drag you a little bit closer, rather than dropping anchor and refusing to be moved at all \:\)

Then, see how the sea looks from there.



Last edited by Dom R; 04/12/08 07:21 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle