If I were you I would tell him if he can't make a clear cut choice (since you generously gave him one) then I would make my own choice...I would remove myself from his line-up of choices and cut him free...he needs to know that he CAN lose you!...He keeps returning...dangling the confused card, I want to work on us, I am afraid, I still love you and OW...he is doing this to keep you manipulated...to keep you thinking about HIM...
