Hi gucci loafer, thanks for stopping by my thread. On your comment about other man, I can tell you that for the first time since I have been on these boards I visited the forum on this board about OP in R just yesterday to try and see if I am not seeing this for myself.
My W and I were actually junior high sweethearts, I was 15 and she 13 when we first started dating. Actually next Friday, 4-18 will make 22 years of our first date together which was a junior high school dance. My wife has never been with any other M than myself. We dated all through school and were married back in 93. During our M I have never suspected another person. Even to this day I don't suspect another person although just this week I have been trying to open my eyes more to see.
I pay our cell phone bill so I see all of the calls she places as she does mine since the bill goes to her house and it is always open when I get it. I only have my kids every other weekend which does not leave her anytime in my opinion to be with someone else. I have the boys this weekend and after youngest S and I went out to eat we went by W's house to get their clothes, we didn't leave until around 8:00, she may have left to go out after that but I don't think so.
The bad thing is that almost every post I have read on this board points to OP, I am not going to just dismiss this, I will try and look further although I really feel she is not with OM. She states she is just so worn out and tired from trying to make our M work and I never did any trying, it was always her. I'm not sure if she will ever get untired of working at it but I am hoping she does.
I hope that I don't find out you are correct because that would change this whole sitch. I will post that info. if it does come out.
