One more question Pup. You said in your sitch that once your kids found out that it was pretty much the end of your W's affair. How long did it take?
I guess what I'm thinking is DS16 will not let up on her, so even if she's in contact now, don't you think it will weigh heavily on her mind there by ending the affair sooner rather than later (if it's not over already?)?
I exposed to my adult daughters on May 27th, and her parents, OM's parents, and their mutual employer over the next two weeks. It was not until late-August that my wife agreed to end her affair, and enter into no-contact and transparency, the terms of which we continued to wrestle over for another month or so, but which she finally did. She backslid once, about a month in, and proactively came to me and admitted it and begged forgiveness, and I granted her the "one strike" that I had predetermined that I would tolerate.
There has been no contact since, at least not that my intel uncovered.
