He has hit me or pushed me maybe a total of 10 times in 24 years. I am not justifying or making exuses for him.
yes you are. you are taking ownership of what happened
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But if my H and I get D and he stays with her, she does win. She set out to break up our M, our F, and take my H for her own and that is what is happening. SHE will get to grow old with him, SHE will get to laugh with him, SHE will get to cry with him, SHE will get to share in his future, SHE will get to spend the rest of her days with him. NOt ME.
uhmmm she gets the abuse too....it wont end w/you.
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And last night was the very first time he's ever hit me sober
hes escalating..it will become easier for him. hes crossed that threshold.
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My H is not a WIFE BEATER!
what part of this do you not see?????
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try and figure out where I go from here..
far far away from that man
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
