lodo! congratulations on your first ever locked thread! I am so very proud of you.

About hiring those movers. Seems a shame to spend that money when you have an able bodied W who wants you and your stuff out. That should be incentive for her to help! \:o Let her feel it too.
Whatchya think? maybe you'll get in big arguments and be glad to be rid of each other. Maybe you'll get in big arguments and be like in the movies and end up in each others arms and passionately ripping each others clothes off. Then when you're done you'll have to find a box of clothes to get something to put on that isn't shredded. While you're unpacking that box she will have a change of heart....

Ok, I know this isn't funny and it is very serious about what will be happening very soon in your life. Just something to chew on.

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.