For the guys with kids and a WAW

[hopeful4her]

I understand your point Steel. I live in Texas and I am just now trying to research D's. I do want to reconcile and continue to find strength in friends. I have been DBing, even when I didn't know about DBing, even though I did make some mistakes. When I went the shade of dark this week, I could feel her responding, strangely enough, and then she pushed buttons on Friday morning because she couln't stand the silence. I fell right in. I get counsel from different people, but so far the majority are in favor of me fighting for the girls, if I have to.
I spent some time at my MIL house after I got off work last night. She said that she had spoken to the wife early this morning after I left the house. I figured she was going to break down after I left. MIL only know what WW tells her and so I went ahead and filled her in. I told her that I know that WW is her daughter and wants to support her decision, but that she needed to know the truth as to why she really wants to leave. She says she understood. I told she needed to help reach out to her and help counsel. The only people my WW really speaks to are the OM and my ex SIL who did the same thing to my brother. I told MIL what do you think they are telling her.
I love this woman and want a chance to reconcile and save our R, but I have reached a point. If she won't give up OM then I need to do what I can to protect my family. I just hate the thought of it.