He's miserable. He wants his own life. He moves out with no forwarding address. He files divorce papers. He admits to having dated a friend during our marriage three times but it wasn't a long term affair. He's living with her. He expects me to trust him with life decisions.
He he he.. doesn't do much for me me me.
Perhaps my DBing is accepting/embracing:
Reality versus convoluted fantasy (this can't be true, my husband would never do this to me).
Someone who manipulates, lies, threatens me and the children no longer is my husband. That title represents a state of love, trust and commitment.
I am no longer his wife. That title represents a state of love trust and commitment.
"Wife" and "Husband" are gifts given to each other surrounded in love, caring, compassion, trust, belief.. all that is good, all that is worth fighting for.
I have to truly let go to get a life. I based my life on him and the kids. Not uncommon to get lost in the workings of family.. but man oh man, what a time to get a life.
Respect me, "Kevin" (not his hame), earn my trust while I walk forward, grow legs.
