bworl said:

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He loves you both. Would accept being with either of you. If you take him, he'll go with you. Unless the other woman wants him too, then he'll have to think about it.

Actually thinking of this a little differently. Is it love at all? It could be any woman who gives him what he wants. I dated a woman after my divorce papers were served. I stopped seeing her and I did feel a little bad about dumping her. My C said "you know you could have been anyone." What he meant was that she was looking for a man, not "the" man. As bworl said:
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I want to be the only person that they want to be with, period.
And that is what a real marriage is about.

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