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Much of what is going on in terms of affair recovery is just cleanup (if you're interested I'll let you know what the biggest cleanup issue is later).
Yeah, of course I'm interested.

I'm glad to hear that things continue to improve, even if it's slow going. The situation with your W's friend reminded me of when my W's friend similarly wanted to visit, just 3 weeks after D-day. I had briefly been angry with her because I knew that she had known of the A, and I felt betrayed. I ended up calling her and straightening it out. Turns out she had been very much against the A, and had been trying to get my W to stop it. I can certainly see in your case how the friend might feel a little uncomfortable around you. Anyway, good luck with that.

Brian