[SF, he is saying some scary stuff, at least scary to me the way you have related it. I believe he's got some significant emotional issues going on. Even his refusal for counseling is a danger sign of someone who could potentially be facing a serious mental health issue. The constant drinking doesn't help either. Put that together with general paranoia and this sense that he's being used by those around him, wow, you've got quite the pressure cooker going on inside your man.
Steelers- this really hit home from BWORL for me. My H said he won't go back to c - "It was the same thign week after week.." WELL YEAH -- you were facing stuff... But they don't want to .. Bill is right -- he is very unstable.
You know this - and I do think Bill was right about one other thing - - our kids they are smarter than we think. Trust what they say --- be wise.
I am sorry you are going through this Hell.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again