The Best Way to End it All?

[cagzmom]

I hear your words and wow you sound very strong. Somethign my C said yesterday has really helped - and I hope it helps you. In my state we have to wait 1 year before the D can be filed- my H is passive agressive and probably wouldn't file -- I am going to.

I am NOT rushing happily to the court house. We still have some final little mediation things to clear up (which should happen this week). I think there is a point where you decide what is good and healthy for you!

If you can move on, have dignity and self respect and wait on her then do it. We can file and still love them- and if your marriage was to be restored it will be a NEW one.

Dont RUSH into anything...but follow your heart- YOURS. Bibilically you know you are free to divorce. It truly is her burden --

I am sorry you have to walk this - it is so so hard.