For the guys with kids and a WAW

[kolle]

My WAW is also a very good mother.
But are you a less good father? I don't think I am.
At the moment she is the primary caretaker, but she will have to find a 9-5 job anyway when we D, so the kids will go to daycare anyway.

She knows I want to reconcile, and she's been using it to manipulate me: "If you really loved me you wouldn't fight about the alimony, you would give me enough." etc etc. I know it does not make sense, but what makes sense in a WAW's fairy world anyway?

Should I allow her to take me to the cleaners because I love her?