Yep. Hard not to be seduced by the idea. However, as you can now confirm from personal experience, it doesn't often work out (though there are the occasional exceptions). Truth is, if you're not in counseling when you "get back together" your chances of success are slim.
Originally Posted By: jersting
She said she was here to stay and she wasn't leaving no more. I welcomed her back in. She was here for two weeks when she went to her lawyer to call off the divorce.
This might fall under the heading, "If it's too good to be true, it probably is".
Originally Posted By: jersting
...my lawyer told me he wouldn't let me sign off because of her past performance.
He did you a great favor.
Originally Posted By: jersting
She would not sign the paper so I told her we could just leave the divorce pending and we could go to counseling.
You did good.
Originally Posted By: jersting
She said we didn't need counseling and she would prove to me she was here to stay.
If your M is at the point where you're separated, this is the statement of someone firmly in the grips of denial.
Originally Posted By: jersting
About 2 weeks after she said that she moved out again.
