I want to draw you all a clear picture. My H is not a WIFE BEATER!
You are in denial.
Originally Posted By: theotherhalf
This does not happen on a regular basis, not even once in awhile. He has hit me or pushed me maybe a total of 10 times in 24 years.
Once is one time too many.
Originally Posted By: theotherhalf
I am not justifying or making exuses for him. It IS NOT RIGHT! never has been. But I learned a long long time ago, it's not me he is lashing out at.
That does not make it ok. You are making excuses for him.
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TOH.
Is this broken man what you really want or is it a matter of pride and you don't want to lose him to OW?
NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
