Hey, it sounds like maybe you've reached the rejected-OP-turns-psycho-evil stage. That's GOT to be a good thing. A little scary, maybe, but if it was her that flattened your tire, it most likely means that she's realizing that your H is not coming back to her, and she's pi**ed off. The only effect she's going to have is to make your H realize even more that he made the right decision to stick with you and he'll be thanking God tonight that you took him back.
If it was her on the phone, your H was probably just trying to reason with her and get her to leave you guys alone. I know it's driving you nuts, but the way I see it, this whole episode is probably a good thing, not a bad thing. Believe me, the psycho-b****-from-hell act is NOT attractive, and she won't succeed in getting your H back.
You have a nice Father's Day too. Relax, and be nice to your H. He'll appreciate it.
