I just didn't expect to be 40 and in this situation- I know it's just a number, but it's a big one!
Thank again.
LIFE BEGINS AT 40.
My H met OW 4 months before my 40th birthday. I was dreading spending my birthday 'alone'. My H actually sent me a card in with my son. I wasn't expecting, nor did i want one. I didn't even open it. I gave it to my sons gerbils who gnawed it up. I have no idea what he wrote in it ... I still feel good about that to this day,
My 40th birthday was an amazing day. I treated myself.. with the money I would not have to spend on his birthfay present. My son and I went out for a chinese meal, we were treated like royalty. I will never forget my 4oth birthday.
Being 40 is what you make it.
Enjoy.NC.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
My son and I went out for a chinese meal, we were treated like royalty. I will never forget my 4oth birthday.
