Addie, Thank you so much for responding so quickly. I had already turned off the computer & I'm about to go to bed, but I just had to check to see if anyone had given me any advice. I need it so bad right now!!! I am very devastated & just can't imagine my life without him. I always said if a man did this to me that I would never forgive them or take them back but you just don't know what you will do until you are in the sitch.

He did notice changes. He didn't say a word about the security alarm I had put in I'm sure he couldn't help but notice b/c of the sign out front & also the big box on the wall. But, I was very nice & talked pretty normal to him, he asked me about a couple of friends of ours. I told him my parents had gotten another dog & showed him the picture of him, he seemed interested, of course we were both a little distant but for the most part I was very upbeat & pleasant around him. He does have his guard up & I think he is up to something with OW against me, b/c I over heard him tell her that we had not talked about that yet, he was going to hold off & barter. So, I'm not sure what he is up to.

Yes, there were only a couple of pictures with me in it by myself, well the dogs were in one. But he got a few of us together, he got a lot of himself in the pictures that he looked good in & was skinny & looked younger. He made the comment at how young he look & not old like he is now. Which I don't think he looks old & I told him that today. He saw some pictures of his Dad, who passed away a few years ago, he looked pretty sad, like he was about to cry & I did put my hand on his shoulder & patted him a little just to comfort him. He didn't pull away but he didn't really react either. He also saw a few pictures of me & made the comment on several of them that it was a good picture. That made me feel good, but he didn't take those. We looked at honeymoon pictures & all of our trips together, so sad & so many memories. I hope this has jogged his memory a little but so far he is not acting like it. And of course he is still lovey dovey with OW.

I will do my best to do as well tomorrow as I did today. I wish my friend would get here a little earlier, especially since his family will be here. But, I'll make somehow.

Thanks again for all your support & encourgement!!!!!