Not knowing what is going on is hard to cope with.
Presumably your W knows that your sister would tell you what she was doing. Could it be a mind game?
Act don't react. Do you have access to the house so that you can remove your property?
Thinking of you and hoping you are OK.
NC.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.